Your loved one is in basic training or deployed. You want to stay connected—but what's the best way to send them your love, support, and moments from home? This complete comparison covers traditional mail, Sandboxx, and Olettra.
BY OLETTRA · FEBRUARY 2, 2026
When someone you love is in basic training or deployed, mail call becomes everything. It's their lifeline to home, their reminder that they're not forgotten, their motivation to keep pushing through the hardest days.
But here's the question families ask us every day: “What's the best way to send letters?”
Should you handwrite everything? Use a digital service like Sandboxx? Or send something they can actually see and feel like Olettra's flipbook letters?
During basic training, recruits have extremely limited phone access. Most training programs allow only a brief phone call upon arrival and occasionally on Sundays (if it's earned as a privilege).
For deployed service members, communication depends on location, mission, and available technology. Wi-Fi can be spotty. Video calls drain morale when they freeze or drop. Phone calls are short and expensive.
Physical mail is different. It doesn't require a charged phone, stable internet, or perfect timing. It's something they can hold, reread, and keep in their footlocker or deployment bag.
For many service members, mail call is the highlight of their day.

Best For:
People who love the craft of handwriting, want to include small keepsakes, and don't mind the extra time. Perfect for grandparents, thoughtful writers, and anyone who enjoys the ritual of letter-writing.

Best For:
Busy families who want speed and convenience above all else. Perfect for quick updates, frequent senders, and people who prioritize efficiency over personalization.
Best For:
Families who want to send living moments that don't require technology. Perfect for grandparents waving, kids blowing kisses, pets doing tricks, or just saying “I love you” in a way they can watch over and over—even when there's no phone or Wi-Fi.
“It's like holding a video in your hands.”
| Feature | Regular Mail | Sandboxx | Olettra |
|---|---|---|---|
| Cost | $0.73 (stamp) | Subscription | $14.99 |
| Delivery Speed | 3-7 days | Next day* | 3-5 days |
| Can Send Videos | ✗ | ✗ | ✓ (as flipbooks) |
| Works Without Wi-Fi | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Handwritten Option | ✓ | ✗ | ✓ |
| Multiple Contributors | △ (manual) | ✗ | ✓ |
| Permanent Keepsake | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Motion/Movement | ✗ | ✗ | ✓ |
| Ease of Use | Medium | Very Easy | Easy |
| Emotional Impact | High | Medium | Very High |
*Next-day delivery only to basic training mailrooms when submitted by 4:30 PM ET Mon-Thu
“My son is at Fort Jackson for basic training. I sent him an Olettra letter with a video of our dog doing his favorite trick. He told me he's watched it at least 50 times. It's the one thing that makes him smile on the hardest days.”
— Sarah M., Army Mom
“I use Sandboxx when I just need to send quick updates—it's fast and convenient. But for special moments (birthdays, holidays, big news), I send Olettra. There's no comparison when you want them to actually see something moving.”
— Mike T., Navy Dad
“My daughter is deployed. Wi-Fi is terrible where she is, so video calls never work. I sent her an Olettra flipbook of her kids saying goodnight. She keeps it in her pocket. She doesn't need a charged phone to see her babies' faces—she just flips through it. That means everything.”
— Linda R., Mother of Deployed Soldier
There's no single “best” way to send letters—it depends on what you're trying to say and how you want them to feel it.
Regular mail is timeless and personal. Sandboxx is fast and convenient. Olettra is the only one that lets you send living moments they can hold in their hands.
Many families use a combination: Sandboxx for quick updates, handwritten notes for personal touches, and Olettra for the moments that matter most—birthdays, milestones, or just when words aren't enough.
Because at the end of the day, what matters isn't how you send love—it's that you do.
And when you want them to see your face, hear your voice captured in motion, and feel like home is right there in their hands? That's when Olettra makes all the difference.